Make Your Man Commit – Three Steps to Making it Happen
Do you spend a good amount of your time wondering why you cannot make your man commit? Have you reached the point where you should consider ending a dead-end relationship? What should a woman do if she is ready to commit but her guy is not? Being approached with the “commitment talk” is something that most men dread. Read on and you can find three ideas to help you finally make your man commit.
It’s a common fact that men will very seldom change anything in their lives very easily, especially relationships. The reality is that the modern man’s ego is fed by the fact that the more sexual partners he can claim, the more manly he seems. It is for this reason that men retreat rapidly from any woman broaching the subject of commitment with them. If a relationship is moving along, a man will see no reason to alter it by agreeing to be mutually exclusive with his partner. This does not necessarily mean that he wants to actually sleep with other women; he just wants to know that he can if he chooses.
If you feel as though you have run into this brick wall, try the following ideas.
- Play hard to get. Remember when you were first going out and you would flirt with your guy and play little love games with him? Do it again. Little challenges such as these keep a man on his toes and make him feel as though he has to chase you. You will make him commit if he feels there is a chance he may lose you.
- Don’t lose sight of your own life. Go places with other friends, find new activities, and treat yourself to something special once in a while. All of a sudden he will see that your time is filled with things other than him and he probably won’t take to sharing you very easily. If he truly cares about you, he’ll latch on tightly to keep you from getting away.
- See other men if your man chooses to continue to see other women. Exclusivity is a two way street and both partners must give in order to receive. It is foolish to remain true to only him if he is spending time with other women. Judge his reactions wisely. If he becomes very bothered and worried then he will make the choice to give up his flirtations so as not to lose you. If he is aware that you are seeing other men and he does not appear upset, then his role in the relationship is not as advanced as yours. You might want to consider moving on.
Keep in mind that commitment is a tough topic for any man to discuss. Be fair but be firm when you talk with your man if you truly want to make him commit. If you cannot seem to get satisfaction, put yourself out on the market and find a man who will.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
