Rules of a Relationship – How to Build a Lasting Relationship
Here are some useful tips for building a healthy love life with a spouse or a partner.
A There are three important words for keeping a relationship live. These three words are ‘commitment, commitment and commitment’
B There are no watertight rules framed for choosing a partner capable of a lasting relationship; but the open eyes help too much. Evaluation of a would-be partner must be done in respect of his/her personality, especially about general behavior towards other friends and family members. It would be of paramount importance how she/he respects basic values of life and practices the difference between the words and deeds. In short look at the flame before you burn your skin.
C A man or a woman is attracted to another woman or a man for different reasons, sometimes due to the strange reasons, too. A person may look good to us because he/she resembles someone whom we loved in past. There is a story where in a young lady is attracted to a person only because his face was very much like her brother who had died in a car accident. A man might have his hairstyle like your father or a woman might have eyes like the primary teacher whom you revered much. It’s good to befriend such a person; but while starting a serious relationship, such things should be filtered out.
D At the start of acquaintance, a person might look extraordinary. It happens due to good physique or nice habit of dressing, too. The initial satisfaction from sexual encounters also plays a grounding role in blinding one’s intellectual eyes. So avoid equating sex with real love.
E If we take our relationship as we take a weekend party, then it is certainly to be ended within weeks. So have, and keep showing too, the utmost respect for a relationship you are going to build. Your partner would be taking it seriously only on the basis of the respect you show to your ongoing affairs. Importance of mutual respect is paramount in building a healthy and long lasting relationship with your partner of a spouse.
Let it be said again that there are no watertight rules for choosing a right partner. But if the eyes and minds were open with a wide feedback of some knowledge, it would certainly be helpful in building a lasting relationship.
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RULES FOR A LASTING RELATIONSHIP
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